Parenting skill

Unfair to charge Nurin’s parents

KUALA LUMPUR: It would be unfair to charge Nurin Jazlin Jazimin’s parents over her abduction and death, Malaysia Crime Prevention Foundation vice-chairman Tan Sri Lee Lam Thye said.

“They have gone through enough and there is no need to further punish them,” he said.

Lee was among many who have voiced their objections to any legal action against the parents.

He said the main issue now was not about punishing the parents but how police and the public could work together to nab the criminals.

Gathering information: Jazimin letting two police officers out of his house in Wangsa Maju, Kuala Lumpur, after they recorded statements from him and his wife.

“This is a very heinous crime and every effort should be made to solve the case,” he said.

Lee urged parents to be aware of their responsibilities in protecting their children.

He also hoped there would be people who would come forward and work with police in tracking down the criminals.

Women, Family and Community Development Minister Datuk Seri Shahrizat Abdul Jalil agreed with Lee and said her ministry’s view was that the priority was to hunt down the criminals responsible for Nurin's death.

“Although the law must take its course, any decision to prosecute must be made based on the facts of each individual case,” she said in a statement yesterday.

She said any decision to prosecute must therefore be made cautiously and prudently.

“I believe that the Public Prosecutor

will consider all these before deciding whether to charge or not in any given case,” she added.

She added that the whole nation must help the police track down the culprit.

“The police must continue and intensify their investigation,” Shahrizat said, adding that Nurin’s parents now needed compassion and support.

Source from The Star Tuesday September 25, 2007
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Recently we been hit by the story of poor little girl that been sexual abuse and killed. It's really very tragic and sad..the question's is who to blame?? and should we punish Nurin's parent??

some of the people i meet and they are blaming the police force as they think that the police force not doing anything. what you think ??
I don't think the police force we should blame. they doing their job or not we still can't blame them, as they are the 2nd party to be blame. What i think is, the parent should be blame..why?
1 main reason they are just "careless". I mean there are so many cases reported on media but they just don't care or they just love to say "she used to go alone" or "all the while she been going alone or with sister"

what can her sister ( 1 year older ) do ?? Beat up the bad guys? or if unlucky even her sister be the victim too??

I think Malaysian parent have to "polish" their parenting skill or be more aware of their children "where about"
Even in shopping mall mostly every week we will get announcement on missing child... just dont understand why this parent unable to take care of their child?? there are so many product in the market but why is not fully utilize ?? or maybe the way of thinking.. they used to called it "Dog Chain"

Below are the few product that i think is in Malaysia market for a long long time even my grandmother used that on me :D











This normally will be hook up to the baby or "junior" and the other end will be hook up to parent waist or wrist

just don't understand why "Malaysian" find this embarrassing?? if you're a parent which will u go 1st?
child safety or your own face?

we do understand that Nurin's parent when through alot of pain and i do think they do regret it.. but after so many cased reported and this seem to be most "brutal" and this will happen again if gov do not take actions on parent that is careless.

by what i saying now is not like i am a parent or i am so good of taking care children but i think this is more to common sense.

what i think is we cant blame the police force why on that period they cant find her but what we should think is why her parent let her out to pasar malam alone???

Think about it