Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Parenting skill

Unfair to charge Nurin’s parents

KUALA LUMPUR: It would be unfair to charge Nurin Jazlin Jazimin’s parents over her abduction and death, Malaysia Crime Prevention Foundation vice-chairman Tan Sri Lee Lam Thye said.

“They have gone through enough and there is no need to further punish them,” he said.

Lee was among many who have voiced their objections to any legal action against the parents.

He said the main issue now was not about punishing the parents but how police and the public could work together to nab the criminals.

Gathering information: Jazimin letting two police officers out of his house in Wangsa Maju, Kuala Lumpur, after they recorded statements from him and his wife.
“This is a very heinous crime and every effort should be made to solve the case,” he said.

Lee urged parents to be aware of their responsibilities in protecting their children.

He also hoped there would be people who would come forward and work with police in tracking down the criminals.

Women, Family and Community Development Minister Datuk Seri Shahrizat Abdul Jalil agreed with Lee and said her ministry’s view was that the priority was to hunt down the criminals responsible for Nurin's death.

“Although the law must take its course, any decision to prosecute must be made based on the facts of each individual case,” she said in a statement yesterday.

She said any decision to prosecute must therefore be made cautiously and prudently.

“I believe that the Public Prosecutor

will consider all these before deciding whether to charge or not in any given case,” she added.

She added that the whole nation must help the police track down the culprit.

“The police must continue and intensify their investigation,” Shahrizat said, adding that Nurin’s parents now needed compassion and support.

Source from The Star

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Recently we been hit by the story of poor little girl that been sexual abuse and killed. It's really very tragic and sad..the question's is who to blame?? and should we punish Nurin's parent??

some of the people i meet and they are blaming the police force as they think that the police force not doing anything. what you think ??
I don't think the police force we should blame. they doing their job or not we still can't blame them, as they are the 2nd party to be blame. What i think is, the parent should be blame..why?
1 main reason they are just "careless". I mean there are so many cases reported on media but they just don't care or they just love to say "she used to go alone" or "all the while she been going alone or with sister"

what can her sister ( 1 year older ) do ?? Beat up the bad guys? or if unlucky even her sister be the victim too??

I think Malaysian parent have to "polish" their parenting skill or be more aware of their children "where about"
Even in shopping mall mostly every week we will get announcement on missing child... just dont understand why this parent unable to take care of their child?? there are so many product in the market but why is not fully utilize ?? or maybe the way of thinking.. they used to called it "Dog Chain"

Below are the few product that i think is in Malaysia market for a long long time even my grandmother used that on me :D











This normally will be hook up to the baby or "junior" and the other end will be hook up to parent waist or wrist

just don't understand why "Malaysian" find this embarrassing?? if you're a parent which will u go 1st?
child safety or your own face?

we do understand that Nurin's parent when through alot of pain and i do think they do regret it.. but after so many cased reported and this seem to be most "brutal" and this will happen again if gov do not take actions on parent that is careless.

by what i saying now is not like i am a parent or i am so good of taking care children but i think this is more to common sense.

what i think is we cant blame the police force why on that period they cant find her but what we should think is why her parent let her out to pasar malam alone???

Think about it

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Akon Sorry, Blame It On Me Lyrics

Love this song a lot... wonderful



As life goes on I'm starting to learn more and more about responsibility
And I realize that everything I do is affecting the people around me
So I want to take this time out to apologize for things that
I've done things that haven't occurred yet
and things that they don't want to take responsibility for

I'm sorry for the times that I left you home
I was on the road and you were alone
I'm sorry for the times that I had to go
I'm sorry for the fact that I did not know

That you were sitting home just wishing we
Could go back to when it was just you and me
I'm sorry for the times I would neglect
I'm sorry for the times I disrespect

I'm sorry for the wrong things that I've done
I'm sorry I'm not always there for my sons
I'm sorry for the fact that I'm not aware
That you can't sleep at night when I am not there

Because I'm in the streets like everyday
I'm sorry for the things that I did not say
Like how you are the best thing in my world
And how I'm so proud to call you my girl

I understand that there's some problems
And I'm not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show

If I can't apologize for being wrong
Then it's just a shame on me
I'll be the reason for your pain
And you can put the blame on me

You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

I'm sorry for the things that he put you through
And all the times you didn't know what to do
I'm sorry that you had to go and sell those bags
Just trying to stay busy until you heard from dad

When you would rather be home with all your kids
As one big family with love and bliss
And even though pops treated us like kings
He got a second wife and you didn't agree

He got up and left you there all alone
I'm sorry that you had to do it on your own
I'm sorry that I went and added to your grief
I'm sorry that your son was once a thief
[Sorry, Blame It On Me lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com]


I'm sorry that I grew up way to fast
I wish I would of listened and not be so bad
I'm sorry that your life turned out this way
I'm sorry that the feds came and took me away

I understand that there's some problems
And I'm not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show

If I can't apologize for being wrong
Then it's just a shame on me
I’ll be the reason for your pain
And you can put the blame on me

You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

I'm sorry that it took so long to see
But they were dead wrong trying to put it on me
I'm sorry that it took so long to speak
But I was on tour with Gwen Stefani

I'm sorry for the hand that she was dealt
And for the embarrassment that she felt
She's just a little young girl trying to have fun
But daddy should of never let her out that young

I'm sorry for Club Zen getting shut down
I hope they manage better next time around
How was I to know she was underage
In a 21 and older club they say

Why doesn't anybody want to take blame
Verizon backed out disgracing my name
I'm just a singer trying to entertain
Because I love my fans I'll take that blame

Even though the blame's on you
Even though the blame's on you
Even though the blame's on you
I'll take that blame from you

And you can put that blame on me
And you can put that blame on me
You can put that blame on me
You can put that blame on me

And you can put that blame on me

And you can put that blame on me

Friday, September 14, 2007

50 th tahun malaysia ku merdeka???

Nice title??

Yea, as i said Malaysia 50th years independents!!!! Does this mean anything to us? yes of cause.. we do have our own national car, Sky high tower, bridge on the bridge , Petronas and etc... We progress a lot aren't we?? since 1957 to 2007

i can said that we proud of it..but there is still something that didn't change at all since 1957

CIVILIZATION!!! or another word is mentality... This is general regardless chinese's, malays , indian's or lain lain bangsa. Regardless young, old , dying.. they are all the same. But however, i wanna make my point here... is not everyone like that.. just this small minority group ( but it seem to get worse now )

Yesterday while waiting for my gf at her place, i was watching this bunch of ppl walking around. observe what they doing, there is where i found an idea to write today.

1 ) Lift - everyone standing right in front of the lift and waiting for the door to open, once the door opened they will rush in without giving way for ppl to come out from the lift. This kind of attitude is everywhere... Regardless place, time, races, religion, educated, non educated, young or old. Even at my office ( so called multi-national company ) there is "this ppl" around... the way their act, seem like they going to miss the lift if they don't rush in. Don't they fucking understand or common sense to let ppl from inside to go out 1st??? where is the brain? Do this kind of ppl progress??

2 ) Yellow box - when ever i going to my gf place ( jalan university - Millennium court ) at the junction to turn into her place there is a yellow box. further up the road ( about 200 M ) there is traffic light. when the traffic is heavy the car's will line up till the KFC area meaning about 1 KM back. but this "fuckers" don't understand what the fucking yellow box mean. they will keep going and make don't know like nothing is happen. What i normally do i will drive fast and act like i going to bang them and horn till i able to get through... once i was not in the mode there is 1 guy got middle finger from me. Do this bunch of fucker progress??

3 ) Pedestrian - when ever Malaysian's driver see anyone crossing the road. They will press on the accelerator more... i going to said it in very very simply way
The different malaysian and western :-
Malaysian: drive as fast as they can when they see there is pedestrian crossing the road.
Western :Stop the car when they see there is pedestrian crossing the road ( even sport car on the run )

4 ) Buses - This buses i talking about is Metro bus. If you keep on eye on this buses, they will drive like they driving skyline. i think they forgot that they driving a bus and there is more then 50 life in their hand

5 ) Queue up - Malaysian ppl good in cutting queue, regardless anything while driving, getting into the bus, buying food, anything that need to be queue up. there is 1 incident, this happen if i not mistaken MATTA Fair early of this years ( march )
i not sure if she is Indian or not, as she is dark but let us forget about where she belongs too..that is not important of this story.
I not sure what time i was there as the story like ages ago. But i just remember the queue was freaking long...but when the time nearer to me.. i say about 7 more ppl in front of me. there's this bitch with 4 children. the oldest i think about 13 and the youngest still in the prem. This bitch just ask the oldest daughter to cut the queue... and the ppl in front of me was making hell of noise then this is what she say that i can't forget till now. " i have baby here.. no one taking care, later kena kidnap how? we are malaysian help help a bit ok want ... "

What fucking mother she is...she teaching her daughter to cut queue and said that is ok. what do you mean no one taking care of your baby. you asking you daughter to queue up and u wait somewhere else la.. what is so difficult??? you can see the expression of her daughter feeling bad but her mother keep pushing her and insisting her to cut the queue... NOT CIVILIZE AT ALL....

this is the top 5 Malaysians mentality attitude....


Please feel free to drop me comment on this if i miss out anything :D

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Pretender

The world we living now.. there is a lot of pretender, among our friends i would say it.

Sometime i wondering why life need to be so difficult. If you can't accept someone as a friend or they did something to you that you dislike why can't just you tell it off?

I really hate this "pretender" they just pain in the ass. regardless male or female. They will just tell you, " no you did nothing wrong, it's just me " but the next day you know , they will said " i cant take it anymore " today they tell u to to forget about it, the next day they tell you they cant take it anymore.. why so hard???

sometime i don't understand why they love to "please" ppl then at the end they will hurt you again.. you are a JERK

They be friend with you is because
1) they need something from you
2) they wanna used u for something
3) Course mate
4) Scared hurt your feeling if they tell u they dislike you
5) Have too... "u noe what i meant"

anyway i'm back to normal state which few month back i have some "emotion" problem...not period of cause , hahahahaha..... i think sometime is worthless to let the memory remain as i said it's "WORTHLESS" they just a burden that u have to carry with nothing can be made out of it. so just let throw it away and don't think about it.

I'm happy with my life now. I have what i want and i have someone that i love so much been supporting me always.... i think only she know what type of person i am....

So to those pretenders..you guys can "fuck off" my life and other ppl life....

Monday, September 10, 2007

Finally...





Finally my baby graduate
Been there about 11 AM and there's a lot a lot of people.
Ah Fai and me sweating like hell the sun is so so so hot.. but enjoy looking at my baby graduate. feel so happy for her. Give her African daisy the flower that she love the most...

been there for about 1-2 hours, then we all heading to aunt chris hse for some small party... the cake that she bought very nice looking but too sweet. just had a slice... hahahah

Then after that we when to burger king to eat lunch, then that is the end of the day....



When back and rest till a bout 6.45 PM and i when to fetch my pretty cousin and then fetch ann and ah fai. we heading to TGIF friday for out dinner graduation celebration. Right after that we still thinking where can we go as the nite still early




Then we decide to go Clubbing ( Absalute mercury bangsar ). In out mind we wanted to go somewhere near and having a drink and chi chat and go back but we end up dancing all nite long and enjoy it alot...





Thanks for all those who able to make it and make the nite happening. Thanks guys....